Divorce is one of the most significant transitions a person can face. It doesn’t just change your relationship status; it shakes the foundation of who you are. The life you envisioned is no longer your reality, and the question arises—who are you now?
One of the most powerful ways to understand and embrace change after divorce is to recognize how transformation has always been part of God’s story for His people. In the Bible, individuals who underwent profound personal and spiritual shifts often received new names—marking a turning point in their purpose, identity, and relationship with God.
A New Name, A New Beginning
Throughout Scripture, we see this pattern of renaming when God calls someone into a new season of life:
- Abram to Abraham – From “exalted father” to “father of many nations,” Abraham’s name change marked his covenant with God and his destiny to be the patriarch of faith.
- Sarai to Sarah – She was no longer just a wife unable to conceive; she became the mother of nations.
- Jacob to Israel – After wrestling with God, Jacob received a new name, signifying his transformation into the father of the twelve tribes of Israel.
- Simon to Peter – Jesus saw more than a fisherman; He saw the rock on which He would build His church.
- Saul to Paul – Once a persecutor of Christians, Paul became one of the greatest apostles of all time.
Each of these name changes represented a radical shift in identity and purpose. God didn’t just alter their names—He revealed to them who they truly were.
Bob Dylan and the Power of Self-Definition
Outside of the Bible, we see this concept in cultural icons as well. Bob Dylan, originally named Robert Zimmerman, changed his name because he needed the world to see him as he saw himself. In a famous 60 Minutes interview, Dylan explained that the name “Bob Dylan” wasn’t just a stage name—it was an expression of his true identity. He was introducing the world to who he really was, not who the world expected him to be. We wrote about Dylan more in the blog by Craig Robertson, Contrarians.
Divorce often forces a similar revelation. You’re no longer the person you were in your marriage. That version of you might not fit anymore. You have an opportunity—not just to reclaim your identity but to redefine it.
Who Are You Becoming?
Maybe you won’t legally change your name, but the essence of stepping into a new identity is still crucial. Divorce doesn’t have to be the end of your story—it can be the beginning of discovering the person God created you to be.
- Are you holding onto an old version of yourself because it’s familiar?
- What if your best, most authentic self is waiting on the other side of letting go?
- How is God calling you to redefine your identity in this season?
Stepping Into Your New Name
You may not hear an audible voice from heaven renaming you, but the principle remains: Your past does not define you. God sees the fullness of your potential. Like Abraham, Sarah, Peter, and Paul, your transformation might be painful, but it is also purposeful.
What name will you give this new chapter of your life?
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